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If you have any plans of going on a date, there are three things that you have to consider. First, forget all about the clueless date advice that you heard. Second, think of new things that you can do and lastly, enjoy yourself while you are on a date.

Basically, a lot of women usually blew out their first date. This is because they do not actually know that they must do during a date. They get different advice from their friends but still, it is not as effective as they want it to be. According to Lionel Tiger, Ph.D., a Charles Darwin professor of anthropology at Rutgers University and the author of The Decline of Males, the best strategy to have the best first date is to actually enjoy yourself instead of thinking of different things on how you can win him over.

Here are some of things that you have to do if you want to rock your first date.

First, live in the present and not in the future. When you think that the guy you are dating is really cool and awesome, do not try to leap to conclusions like “will he be the one?” or “when can I see him again?” These questions are very troublesome especially if it is your first date. You need to stop hoping for the future and stop your expectations. According to Sheenah Hankin, PhD, a psychotherapist in New York and the author of Complete Confidence, if you place too much important on your first encounter with the guy, you will probably spend the whole night thinking of how your date will end up and when will you see him again. It will not be a hit after all and you will just be disappointed on the outcome.

You need to remind yourself that the date is only for one evening and do not expect anything to happen on the following days. Just relax and enjoy the night.

Second, you need to be honest on everything that you say. However, there are still limit on the things that you have to say. It does not mean that when you are honest, you will tell everything to your date. You need to talk to them without lying. You can do it if you will not be telling stories that do not make sense. Do not try to open topics about your past dates. Try to be comfortable with your date so it will not look like he is having a job interview. Try to recall a funny moment when on your work earlier or tell some crazy experiences that you have. It is said that laughing with someone makes you closer to them.

You can also tell some of your strengths and weaknesses. Research suggested that telling something about your weakness or fears makes other people like you and be more comfortable around because they see you as more human and it is more realistic. Humans also have fears and weaknesses so it is not realistic if you say that you do not have a weakness.

Third, try to go a little wild. However, do not overdo it or else the guy will find you really weird. Try to flaunt your fearless personality. You can do it by jiving on a song while you are in his car or try to sneak out on the VIP while you are on the car. We cannot erase the fact that some guys really love women that has a wild thing about them. It makes them excited to know more about you and to be with you again.