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Abbeville
Adamsville
Alabaster
Albertville
Alexander City
Aliceville
Andalusia
Anniston
Arab
Ashville
Athens
Atmore
Attalla
Auburn
Bakerhill
Bay Minette
Bayou La Batre
Bessemer
Birmingham
Boaz
Brent
Brewton
Bridgeport
Brighton
Brundidge
Calera
Camden
Carbon Hill
Center Point
Centre
Centreville
Chickasaw
Childersburg
Citronelle
Clanton
Clay
Clio
Columbiana
Cordova
Creola
Cullman
Cusseta
Dadeville
Daleville
Daphne
Decatur
Delmar
Demopolis
Dora
Dothan
East Brewton
Elba
Enterprise
Eufaula
Eutaw
Evergreen
Fairfield
Fairhope
Fayette
Florala
Florence
Foley
Fort Mitchell
Fort Payne
Fruithurst
Fultondale
Gadsden
Gardendale
Geneva
Glencoe
Goodwater
Graysville
Greensboro
Greenville
Guin
Gulf Shores
Guntersville
Haleyville
Hamilton
Hanceville
Hartford
Hartselle
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Helena
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Alturas<br />
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Biggs<br />
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Blue Lake<br />
Blythe<br />
Branciforte<br />
Branciforte Adobe<br />
Brawley<br />
Brentwood<br />
Brisbane<br />
Buellton<br />
Calexico<br />
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Calimesa<br />
Calipatria<br />
Calistoga<br />
Canyon Lake<br />
Capitola<br />
Carlsbad<br />
Carmel-by-the-Sea<br />
Carpinteria<br />
Cathedral City<br />
Ceres<br />
Chico<br />
Chico-Redding<br />
Chino Hills<br />
Chowchilla<br />
Clearlake<br />
Cloverdale<br />
Clovis<br />
Coachella Valley<br />
Coachella<br />
Coalinga<br />
Colfax<br />
Colma<br />
Colusa<br />
Concord<br />
Corcoran<br />
Corning<br />
Corona<br />
Corte Madera<br />
Cotati<br />
Crescent City<br />
Daly City<br />
Danville<br />
Del Rey Oaks<br />
Delano<br />
Desert Hot Springs<br />
Dinuba<br />
Dixon<br />
Dorris<br />
Dos Palos<br />
Dunsmuir<br />
East Palo Alto<br />
El Centro<br />
El Cerrito<br />
El Monte<br />
Elk Grove<br />
Escalon<br />
Etna<br />
Eureka<br />
Exeter<br />
Fairfax<br />
Fairfield<br />
Farmersville<br />
Ferndale<br />
Firebaugh<br />
Folsom<br />
Fort Bragg<br />
Fort Jones<br />
Fortuna<br />
Foster City<br />
Fowler<br />
Fresno<br />
Galt<br />
Goleta<br />
Gonzales<br />
Grass Valley<br />
Greenfield<br />
Gridley<br />
Grover Beach<br />
Guadalupe<br />
Gustine<br />
Half Moon Bay<br />
Hanford<br />
Healdsburg<br />
Hemet<br />
Hercules<br />
Hillsborough<br />
Hollister<br />
Holtville<br />
Hughson<br />
Huron<br />
Imperial<br />
Indian Wells<br />
Indio<br />
Ione<br />
Isleton<br />
Jackson<br />
Kerman<br />
King City<br />
Kingsburg<br />
La Quinta<br />
Lake Elsinore<br />
Lakeport<br />
Lancaster<br />
Larkspur<br />
Lathrop<br />
Lemoore<br />
Lincoln<br />
Lindsay<br />
Live Oak Sutter County<br />
Livingston<br />
Lodi<br />
Loma Linda<br />
Lompoc<br />
Loomis<br />
Los Angeles<br />
Los Banos<br />
Loyalton<br />
Madera<br />
Mammoth Lakes<br />
Manteca<br />
Maricopa<br />
Marina<br />
Martinez<br />
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McFarland<br />
Mendota<br />
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Millbrae<br />
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Monterey Park<br />
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Moreno Valley<br />
Morro Bay<br />
Mount Shasta<br />
Murrieta<br />
Nevada City<br />
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Newman<br />
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Oakdale<br />
Ojai<br />
Orange Cove<br />
Orinda<br />
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Pacific Grove<br />
Pacifica<br />
Palm Desert<br />
Palm Springs<br />
Palmdale<br />
Paradise<br />
Parlier<br />
Paso Robles<br />
Patterson<br />
Perris<br />
Petaluma<br />
Pismo Beach<br />
Placerville<br />
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Point Arena<br />
Porterville<br />
Portola Valley<br />
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Red Bluff<br />
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Redwood City<br />
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Rocklin<br />
Rohnert Park<br />
Roseville<br />
Ross<br />
St. Helena<br />
Salinas<br />
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San Bruno<br />
San Carlos<br />
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San Juan Bautista<br />
San Luis Obispo<br />
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Scotts Valley<br />
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Sebastopol<br />
Selma<br />
Shafter<br />
Shasta Lake<br />
Soledad<br />
Solvang<br />
Sonoma<br />
Sonora</p>
<p>South Lake Tahoe<br />
South San Francisco<br />
Stockton<br />
Suisun City<br />
Susanville<br />
Sutter Creek<br />
Taft<br />
Tehachapi<br />
Tehama<br />
Temecula<br />
Temple City<br />
Tiburon<br />
Torrance<br />
Tracy<br />
Trinidad<br />
Truckee<br />
Tulare<br />
Tulelake<br />
Turlock<br />
Ukiah<br />
Vacaville<br />
Visalia<br />
Waldo<br />
Wasco<br />
Waterford<br />
Watsonville<br />
Weed<br />
West Sacramento<br />
Westmorland<br />
Wheatland<br />
Wildomar<br />
Williams<br />
Willits<br />
Willows<br />
Windsor<br />
Winters<br />
Woodlake<br />
Woodland<br />
Woodside<br />
Yerba Buena<br />
Yountville<br />
Yreka<br />
Yuba City<br />
Yucca Valley</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is a time old adage that if there is good there must be bad. Unfortunately, this applies to dating. If you are going to have good dates, you are going to have bad dates. Taken a step further, if you have bad dates you are going to have ridiculously bad dates that are simply [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">It is a time old adage that if there is good there must be bad. Unfortunately, this applies to dating. If you are going to have good dates, you are going to have bad dates. Taken a step further, if you have bad dates you are going to have ridiculously bad dates that are simply a waste of time. If you could find a silver lining in this way of thought it would be that you can better appreciate the good dates after you have a few ridiculously bad dates.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Developing A Good Tolerance Of People</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Just about everybody knows and understands that people are different. It is difficult to say what is good and bad about a person because it is usually just different and out of the spectrum of what you may consider normal. Of course there are limits, but learning that your limit is different from another is a key to finding what works best for you. You may consider a male member of her family tagging along on your dates as a bit ridiculous and a time waster. But to her and her family it is simply common practice. If you have an attraction to this person you will need to become tolerant of that persons belief until the practice ends.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Tolerance Turns To A Waste Of Time</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">There are limits to tolerance. You would like to get to now a person but their personal issues, no matter how generous you have been, are beginning to get in the way of your personal needs. If you feel that you have been more then reasonable with their needs, you may need to consider moving on because those tolerances are leading nowhere and becoming a waste of your time. In many respects, if you reach this point it also says that that person has no respect for you and your time.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Learn To Laugh</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">In some instances, it is best that you have a certain sense of humor. When a date goes from bad to absurd you just need to be able to laugh. There is absolutely no shame in this at all. Just flat out laugh. You are getting nothing from what you are doing so find something to take away from the situation. Take away a laugh. If you can do it away from the other person it would be nice but if you simply cannot keep from laughing go for it. From this perspective you are at least taking away a laugh and not completely wasting your time. You will likely appear rude and uncaring but if it is that ridiculous the person has likely had it happen before. Do, however, try to laugh out of ear shot.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Nothing Is Really A Time Waster</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">In the heat/boredom of the moment you are sure to feel like the whole situation is a huge waste of time, and it likely is from an “I could be doing something else” point of view. But, look at the event as a learning and tolerance building experience. This can be a defense mechanism to keep you from repeating the same set of choices that got you there in the first place. Was this situation a waste of time? Maybe it was and…maybe it was not.</span></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Establishing Trust: The Basis of Dating and Relationships</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">You often hear the phrase; “we’re building a relationship” or “I want to build a relationship.” Generally, these two phrases reflect that you are in a relationship and where you would like it to go. In either instance, you are committing to a longer term future that is rewarding. However, this is easier to say then achieve. There are a few important elements to figure out with each element requiring a commitment from both people in the relationship. The process is a two way street so you need to be ready for some work, and most importantly, follow through.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Be Honest With Yourself First</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Before you begin to expect your partner to trust what you say and do take a look at your own track record. Be honest with yourself. There is no point in lying to yourself if you are expecting somebody to be trustworthy with you. Generally, what you are doing is making a yardstick for your expectations. Don’t set your expectations higher then what you have set for yourself or you will be falling a lot farther when those expectations are not met.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Do What You Say You Will Do </span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">This is just a simpler way of saying communicate with one another. If you say that you will do something, do it.<span> </span>Don’t make a task or commitment that you are about to undertake sound like more then it is. Make the commitment easy to understand. It is often heard; that is not what you said, when in reality it is exactly what was said. The translation between male and female was just not quite there. Make your commitment simple and to the point.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Don’t Keep Score</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">As the two of you begin to communicate and follow through on the commitments you make, a certain trust will begin to develop. You may not be able to follow through on every commitment. This is just life in action so do not worry about it. But, the big thing is not keeping track of individual instances of your partner not following through. Mental scorekeeping will just build animosity. You will ultimately have a fairly good idea if a trend is forming, but don’t keep a pad and then pull it out. You’ll only do more harm than good.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">A Solid Trusting Relationship Takes Time</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Trust in another person is not one of those things that you can expect overnight. Trust is a slow building process. In the beginning, you may be putting three pennies in and taking one out. You are still trying to get to know your partners boundaries so don’t expect to meet every expectation right out of the box. Remember that a long term relationship is just that, long term. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Do Not Be Inflexible</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Don’t be the one to cast the first stone. You are no more perfect then your partner. If your partners’ trend line of getting what they say they will do done becomes chronically negative you may have some thinking to do. But remember to compare their record to yours over time. Above all else, however, before you do react to chronic conditions remember to communicate it first so you can work to solve your issues. </span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dating: Memories of the Best Dates We Ever Had
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Memories are a powerful part of the human condition. They trigger all sorts of responses; from physiological responses to emotional responses. You try to live on the good ones and screen out the bad ones. Memories of dates gone by are mostly the good ones as the bad ones tend to simply drift away in favor of the good ones. A few of the really bad date memories can linger on but, by-and-large, the good ones tend to dominate. Overall, this is likely a chemical response induced by the happy drugs released by our bodies, but who is to complain.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">What Is A Best Date?</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Obviously, this is open to interpretation but if a date is remembered it is likely one of the best dates you have had. It is what happened during the date that makes it a best date. Maybe spectacular means best. Maybe a moment, a phrase or a look makes a date the best.<span> </span>A best date is what you would like it to be.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Recognition Can Make A Best Date</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Human beings are essentially a fairly selfish bunch of primates. We like recognition and pleasure for ourselves. This is just the way it is. You like it and you know it. When you get recognition from somebody you care about it holds certain strength. In all likelihood this recognition will be remembered. One particular point of recognition could take the form of “I’m glad you stayed.” In this instance, you gave recognition and received it all at the same time. Possibly this could be a best date as both of you have been given pleasure and recognition.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Attention Could Be A Best Date</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">In today’s world people can often feel like they are an insignificant cog in the wheel of life. People can feel like “what do I matter.” If you are paid attention to on a date you feel like you do matter. When this occurs the body lets the good drugs flow. This can make for a date to be ranked as a best date.<span> </span>As an aside; use your eyes to signify you are paying attention.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Wild, Outrageous Sex</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">There is really no way to get around this idea of a “best date.” If you and your date have gotten to a point where you are exploring one another’s boundaries regarding sex it is likely that a “best date” is going to happen. Fortunately, sexual exploration is a very important part of the dating experience. It shows: caring, imagination, restraint and pure unadulterated passion. How you care to pursue this particular exploration is a choice between the two of you, but if you really go for the limit you will find your best date (stepping out of tense for a moment: I’m now thinking of a particular date and it does rank up there. It’s not the best…best but it’s up there.)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Hold Onto The Best As Yours Alone</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Memories of best dates are a special thing for you and you alone. Do not share them with your significant friend or spouse. They belong to you alone. If you share them you will likely pay for that sharing in a not so pleasant way.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">As you are now most keenly aware, new relationships are a bit of different, especially if you have recently come out of another relationship. Ending and starting, or starting for that matter, a relationship opens a whole new set of rules and emotions for most people. You have fallen into a particular rhythm in your life, whether it is a single person’s rhythm or a relationship rhythm. In either event, a whole new set of issues are about to crop up that you will have to come to grips with as they apply to your new relationship.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Don’t Expect The Same-Old-Same-Old</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Just by the fact that you are making a change in who you are spending your time with means you need to modify your daily patterns. Depending upon how your relationship is oriented you need to make sure that your friend is kept in the loop. This may not apply for the first many dates, but will gradually start to apply as the number and frequency of date’s increases. You should recognize that you still need your space but common courtesy is the rule. After you have seen your new friend a few times, and things appear to be going well, you don’t want to go to long with at least a quick “I am thinking about you” call.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">They Are Not Your Ex</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">As you go about adjusting your patterns make absolutely sure that you do not associate your new relationship with a past relationship. This is difficult to do, but remember that your last relationship ended for a reason. Don’t transpose issues into this totally different new relationship.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Look For New Places And Experiences</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">What may have been a comfortable place to go in your old relationship is not a place to go in your new relationship. If you are leaving a past relationship steer clear of the places you went with your Ex. Find new places to go so that your new relationship is unique to the two of you. Sure, if you have been single for a time, introduce your new friend to places and ideas that you enjoy but also be sure to experience those places that they enjoy as well. The idea is to develop a new set of rhythms distinct to the two of you.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Go Slow With Friends And Family</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">You may be inclined to introduce your new friend to your existing friends. This is fine if it is one or two of your closest friends, but do not overload the person with a large group. The beginning phases of your new relationship are for just the two of you to get to know one another. When the time is right, slowly add your friends and theirs to your circle. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Family is an area where you want to go particularly slow. This introduction is a “signal” and a new stage of your relationship. It should be a step that you and your new friend discuss together. If the time is not right you could set back the relationship quite a bit. When in doubt wait to introduce family.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Instant Love: More Then Just a Date- Myth or Reality
From all reports, instant love is just one of those things that happens to a couple. Look across a crowded room and there is the person of your dreams. No if-ands-or-buts that is the person for you. Others, however, feel that the instant love found by [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Instant Love: More Then Just a Date- Myth or Reality</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">From all reports, instant love is just one of those things that happens to a couple. Look across a crowded room and there is the person of your dreams. No if-ands-or-buts that is the person for you. Others, however, feel that the instant love found by others is purely infatuation. Never mind that 75 percent of all marriages formed from a perception of instant love in the United States are still solid (50 percent divorce rate for developed love.) How to decide if instant love is a viable theory is likely an impossibility but many are trying to pin it down. If you are looking, however, it may happen a lot quicker then you think.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Three, five or 10 second love</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">A collaborative college study in the United States has found that there is a quick choice being made by people regarding their future relationships. One might think that two people, meeting for the first time, need at least a few minutes to figure out if they have any future together, let alone instantly. But it appears this is not the case. In most of the 169 couples involved in this study a decision about what type of relationship they would have took only between 3-10 seconds (there was no difference in the results between 3 seconds and 10 seconds.)</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Friend, foe or lover</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Within this time period the couples quickly assessed what kind of relationship they might like to see develop with their opposite. Those that decided on a positive relationship, determined from a questionnaire, were more likely to sit closer to that person, communicate well and more often with that person and feel closer to that person after 9 weeks then those that felt less positive about their chosen person. What this means is open for speculation but it does appear to show that people are making snap decisions about people they are meeting for the first time.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">It’s what’s inside counts</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">Developing love proponents indicate that love is about getting to know the other person over time. What is inside the person is what counts in a long term relationship and time is the only way to figure this out. A consideration that shows that physical appearance attraction and instant love fails is found in those marriages where appearance dictated the marriage. These marriages failed. Love needs to be developed not found instantly. People advocating instant love fall right into step in this case indicating that instant love is a love developed. It just means that the couples involved are starting a few steps further down the path. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">It will take work</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: ">However one cares to look at the issue one thing is for sure. Developing a close relationship takes time and effort whether you believe in instant love or not. How much time and how much effort is simply a matter of how much the couple puts into the relationship. Whether the relationship is instant or developed isn’t really the point. The point is that a couple has found one another and is trying to have their perception of love fulfill their lives. Neither is an easy path but the same reward is trying to be found.</span></p>
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