Dating
Dating: Memories of the Best Dates We Ever Had
Memories are a powerful part of the human condition. They trigger all sorts of responses; from physiological responses to emotional responses. You try to live on the good ones and screen out the bad ones. Memories of dates gone by are mostly the good ones as the bad ones tend to simply drift away in favor of the good ones. A few of the really bad date memories can linger on but, by-and-large, the good ones tend to dominate. Overall, this is likely a chemical response induced by the happy drugs released by our bodies, but who is to complain.
What Is A Best Date?
Obviously, this is open to interpretation but if a date is remembered it is likely one of the best dates you have had. It is what happened during the date that makes it a best date. Maybe spectacular means best. Maybe a moment, a phrase or a look makes a date the best. A best date is what you would like it to be.
Recognition Can Make A Best Date
Human beings are essentially a fairly selfish bunch of primates. We like recognition and pleasure for ourselves. This is just the way it is. You like it and you know it. When you get recognition from somebody you care about it holds certain strength. In all likelihood this recognition will be remembered. One particular point of recognition could take the form of “I’m glad you stayed.” In this instance, you gave recognition and received it all at the same time. Possibly this could be a best date as both of you have been given pleasure and recognition.
Attention Could Be A Best Date
In today’s world people can often feel like they are an insignificant cog in the wheel of life. People can feel like “what do I matter.” If you are paid attention to on a date you feel like you do matter. When this occurs the body lets the good drugs flow. This can make for a date to be ranked as a best date. As an aside; use your eyes to signify you are paying attention.
Wild, Outrageous Sex
There is really no way to get around this idea of a “best date.” If you and your date have gotten to a point where you are exploring one another’s boundaries regarding sex it is likely that a “best date” is going to happen. Fortunately, sexual exploration is a very important part of the dating experience. It shows: caring, imagination, restraint and pure unadulterated passion. How you care to pursue this particular exploration is a choice between the two of you, but if you really go for the limit you will find your best date (stepping out of tense for a moment: I’m now thinking of a particular date and it does rank up there. It’s not the best…best but it’s up there.)
Hold Onto The Best As Yours Alone
Memories of best dates are a special thing for you and you alone. Do not share them with your significant friend or spouse. They belong to you alone. If you share them you will likely pay for that sharing in a not so pleasant way.